Brooklyn Couple Together for 71 Years Prepares for Diocesan Anniversary Blessing

By Katie Vasquez

Josephine and Cristobal Rodriguez pray the rosary every morning, then watch the Spanish mass on NET-TV.

The Brooklyn couple, who also celebrate mass every Sunday at Holy Family-St Thomas Aquinas parish in Park Slope, believes their faith is part of the reason they have stayed married for 71 years.

“God is so good to us that I get up in the morning and say thank god for another day,” said Josephine Rodriguez. “I have a lot of faith. And that’s the first thing I do in the morning is thank god for this day.”

“She can’t listen to mass without me; if I’m drinking coffee, I have to leave the coffee and come and listen to the mass,” said Cristobal Rodriguez.

They met in Moca, Puerto Rico, when she was 13, and he was 16, but the sparks didn’t fly until they moved to New York in 1951 and reconnected in Brooklyn.

“We met again. and then we started dating, and then we married,” said Josephine.

They married on July 3, 1953, at Queen of All Saints Church in Fort Greene. While the day looked picture-perfect, it did have some hiccups.

“We borrowed a camera from my friend,” said Josephine. “My friend, a flower girl, grabbed and dropped the camera.”

However, they will be able to celebrate their marriage again at the Diocese of Brooklyn’s wedding anniversary mass on Saturday, Sept. 28.

Josephine says seeing the other couples together and being blessed by Brooklyn Bishop Robert Brennan will be inspiring.

“That makes me feel like it’s something that going into our heart because we see all these people held together or marry for a long time, for a short time, but still felt good to be there and special,” said Josephine.

So what do the Rodriguezs’ say is the secret to a happy marriage?

“Well, I believe that love, respect, and communication are the most important things in a marriage,” said Josephine. “When you have that, you can survive.”

“And never go to bed and go to sleep, never go mad,” said Cristobal. “Never.”

Plus, they thank god every day for each other.

St. Christopher’s Inn Offers Recovery Through Prayer

By Katie Vasquez

They have their chores and time to play, but the main purpose of their stay at St Christopher’s Inn in Garrison, N.Y. is to get sober.

The recovery program run by the Franciscan Friars of the Atonement is equipped to treat 118 clients, or “Brother Christophers,” as they are known here.

Like Victor, who has battled addiction for 40 years but is going through rehab for the first time.

“Drinking every day, and then I indulge in other drugs, but it was mainly alcohol,” says Victor, a client of brother Christopher. “I just got to a point where I just couldn’t take it anymore.”

The most recent data from the New York State Office of Addiction Services and Support says that in 2022, 2.8 million New Yorkers had a substance use disorder.  

Seventy-two percent of those who sought treatment were men. 

The friar’s facility incorporates spirituality into the recovery program through prayer, meditation, and mass.

“You think you can control your life, look at the mess you’ve made. Okay, so that’s the understanding. So look for a power greater than yourself outside yourself,” said St Christopher Inn’s spiritual director and president, Father Dennis Polanco. 

That’s why their staff claims it’s one of the more successful programs in the state.  

“There is a sense of dignity and care for one another, a lot of love, a lot of encouragement,” said Lila Stromberg, an alcohol and substance abuse counselor at St Christopher’s Inn. 

John says he lost his faith and control over his life due to addiction.

“I was, I’m just going to stick it out for 90 days. it’s what’s the worst thing that could happen?”

“That’s the biggest thing that this place gave me, like a meaningful connection to a higher power, said John.

It’s a connection he wants to keep once he leaves. 

“It’s changed my perspective on life and how I experience it on such a deep level, said John. 

But even after treatment, relapse is common. The CDC estimates that 40 to 60 percent of addicts experience it.

Thomas says he didn’t expect to return to St Christopher’s after completing treatment in 2008.

God kind of goes by the wayside, and you may be praying to God, but the prayers are different, said Thomas. 

The second time around, the Catholics found God again.

“I spent a lot of time here in the chapel. I never missed a mass, ended up becoming a reader at mass, said Thomas. 

For anyone out there struggling, Father Dennis Polanco says the first step is asking for help. 

“I think one of the things is to reach out to other people, you know, and don’t be ashamed about it,” said Father Polanco. “I think one of the things that holds families back is it becomes a big secret.

If you would like to learn more, you can visit the facility’s website, https://stchristophersinn-graymoor.org/

 

 

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Meet Cristobal and Josephine Rodriguez, a couple joyfully celebrating 71 years of marriage! Their unwavering devotion to faith shines as they attend daily Mass from home, showcasing their incredible journey of love and commitment. This weekend, they will have the opportunity to celebrate their marriage once again at the Diocese of Brooklyn’s Wedding Anniversary Mass.

Parish Celebrates 120 years: Bishop Brennan Signs Anniversary Committee Sashes

At another parish anniversary celebration in Jamaica, Queens, the faithful were so grateful Brooklyn Bishop Robert Brennan was there, signing autographs.

Bishop Brennan helped ring in 120 years at Saint Joseph’s — a parish that first began in 1904 when the Bishop of Brooklyn helped the growing Polish community buy an old colonial house to use as a temporary church.

While the parish finished building their actual church three years later, they never forgot that it was the Bishop of Brooklyn who gave them the first down payment for their spiritual home.

So, members of the anniversary committee had Bishop Brennan sign their sashes.

Cross Proudly on Display After Statue Vandalized Multiple Times at Holy Cross Church

A statue of Christ’s crucifixion is now proudly on display after enduring multiple attacks at its Brooklyn parish. 

Holy Cross Church recently dedicated and blessed this new gold metal statue during the celebration of the parish’s 176th anniversary. 

Years ago, a wooden statue of Christ crucified was stolen from its place on the cross and later found burned in a dumpster. 

Though that image was restored, it was vandalized again just a few months ago, with its feet and legs cut off at the knees. 

The parish came together to replace the statue, which arrived from Italy just in time for the Feast of the Exaltation of the Holy Cross.

CCBQ Honors Community Leaders at Bishop’s Humanitarian Dinner

Vincent LeVien, director of external affairs at DeSales Media Group, was awarded the Bishop Joseph M. Sullivan Award at the Bishop’s Humanitarian Dinner of Catholic Charities Brooklyn and Queens (CCBQ).

The CCBQ dinner, which took place at Cipriani Wall Street, was part of CCBQ’s celebration of its 125th anniversary. Founded in 1899, CCBQ provides affordable housing, sponsors senior citizen centers and food pantries, and offers counseling and other support services to the physically and mentally challenged.

LeVien, whose award was named in memory of the Auxiliary Bishop Sullivan (1930-2013), a former executive director of CCBQ, said he was grateful for the honor because he had the opportunity to meet the late bishop.

The award also meant a great deal to him, he said, because he has worked with CCBQ on disaster relief efforts following Superstorm Sandy in 2012 and the pandemic in 2020 and has seen up close the dedication of its employees.
“I’m truly honored to receive an award from a group like Catholic Charities that does such great work and helps so many people,” he added.

Chapel Touches Down in Terminal C, Interfaith Space is Dedicated Among Delta’s Gates at LaGuardia

By Jessica Easthope

Whether it’s for business or pleasure, for good news or bad, people fly.

They all hope for safe travel, but now there’s a place where they can pray for it.

“I leave something behind but also take something with me, especially in a place that doesn’t belong to anyone,” said Father Piasta, the chaplain at LaGuardia airport. “We all share it.”

Inside Delta’s state-of-the-art Terminal C at LaGuardia Airport is an interfaith chapel. Sandwiched between gates 61 and 62, the chapel is a sanctuary — a place where people of all faiths can bring their bags, but leave their baggage. It’s a space to block out the noise and stay grounded. Airport chaplain Father Chris Piasta says the terminal will be further enriched by the people of faith who use the chapel.

“Not only will we be praying and blessing the sacred space, but they will allow others to take the blessing with them,” he said.

The space was dedicated on Tuesday, Sept. 24. Representatives from the Catholic, Muslim, and Jewish faiths gave blessings and underscored the importance of a room like this.

The chapel, which seats about 35 people, has a standout feature architect Stephan Fried says brings some old New York to the new. The stained-glass windows were from three original chapels at JFK Airport. They sat in storage for nearly 30 years and are now experiencing a rebirth here at LaGuardia.

“It’s meaningful to have that bridge from that time until today,” Fried added.

Father Piasta’s efforts to make the chapel a reality started back in 2016, after the Port Authority of New York and New Jersey offered a meditation room instead in the newly renovated Terminal B. Desales Media’s Director of External Affairs, Vincent Levien, got involved. In early 2022, officials from Delta, Desales, the Port Authority, the chaplains, and the governor’s office met, and Delta pledged to include a chapel in the new Terminal C.

“We do a lot of work that people don’t see every day, and this is one of those small things that is going to impact thousands of people,” Levien said. “That legacy — I’m truly honored to be a part of that.”

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Pulse of the Parish, St. Gregory the Great Church

For Maureen O’Doherty, a book is more than just pages bound together—it’s a lifelong passion. “I love reading. I really do love reading,” she recalls. “From the time I was a little girl, I read and read and read. My mother worked in the library, and she used to bring us home all sorts of books.”

In 2020, Maureen channeled this love of literature into something more communal. Along with a few others, she founded the St. Gregory the Great Book Club, a close-knit group of around 10 parishioners at Bellerose Parish who gather in the church basement. Their shared love of books and faith make this literary circle a special experience. Unlike many modern book clubs that indulge in wine and cheese, theirs remains serious in tone, focused solely on the discussion.

“It’s very serious. A lot of book clubs have wine and cheese or dinners, but we don’t do any of that,” O’Doherty says with a smile. “We come, we meet, we have a good time, we talk, and then we discuss our book. We all know which one each one of us is gonna like anyways.”

But Maureen’s story at St. Gregory the Great doesn’t stop with books. For 55 years, she has been a dedicated parishioner, taking on roles such as Eucharistic Minister, member of the Rosary Altar Society, and part of the Consolation Ministry. These various roles, she says, are different chapters in her life of faith, all reflecting a common theme: her unwavering dedication to the church and community.

“My faith is very important to me because it has gotten me through a lot of problems,” she explains. “When my husband lost a job, we had our faith to go back to. When he died, I knew where he was… That helped me, and I always wonder how people without faith get through things.”

Maureen’s contributions haven’t gone unnoticed. Father Ed Kachurka, pastor of St. Gregory the Great, speaks highly of her commitment. “To me, they live the Gospel message,” Father Kachurka says of parishioners like Maureen. “There’s the two tenets that Christ gave us—he said to love God and to love neighbor, and the people here do it.”

Though Maureen juggles numerous responsibilities at the church, she shows no signs of slowing down. “They keep me going, and I enjoy it,” she says. “Sometimes I say I do a little bit too much, but you know what? It’s all very worthwhile.”

For Maureen O’Doherty, her faith and community are intertwined, and she remains an integral part of the pulse that keeps St. Gregory the Great Parish alive.

Pastor ‘Frustrated’ After Man Attacks Statue of Mary at Jamaica Parish

JAMAICA — A man filled with rage repeatedly hurled paver stones at a historic statue of Mary early Tuesday morning at Presentation of the Blessed Virgin Mary Parish.

Surveillance video recorded the attack severed the hands and gouged the face of the statue at around 3 a.m. on Tuesday, Sept. 24, according to the pastor, Father Victor Bolaños.

A New York Police Department spokesperson said Wednesday morning that no arrests had yet been made, but the incident was being investigated as a criminal mischief case.

“I am very frustrated,” Father Bolaños said. “It’s a beautiful face, a beautiful statue. Many people stop here to pray and to admire the beauty. Most people feel good when they see her.”

Father Bolaños was unsure if the marble statue could be repaired, but the parish would try to do so. He did not know its exact age, but he speculated it could be over 100 years.

It was posted for many years at Mary Immaculate Hospital, which opened in 1902 on 89th Street, a couple blocks from the parish. The hospital closed in 2009, but the statue got a new home at the parish, on the front lawn of the rectory facing Parsons Boulevard.

Also on the lawn is a statue of St. Michael the Archangel, but it was not vandalized on this occasion. However, its sword was damaged and replaced last year in a separate incident, according to the Diocese of Brooklyn.

Father Bolaños said he was at a meeting in New Jersey when he got a phone call from his parish that the statue had been damaged.

He returned to the rectory and spent hours reviewing the surveillance video footage before finding images of the attack.

Footage shows the perpetrator, who appears to be in his 20s or 30s, milling about in front of the rectory. The man is slight in build, bearded, and wearing a ballcap over thick, dark hair. He also wears a reddish T-shirt and dark-colored pants.

The man seems agitated as he paces about and angrily punches at the air. He then hops over a fence surrounding the lawn, grabs paver stones from the landscaping, and throws them at the statue.

Upon impact, the stones explode into puffs of concrete dust.

The suspect hops back over the fence and walks away from the scene. Traffic and pedestrians can be seen passing on Parsons Boulevard during the incident.

More parishioners on Wednesday were learning of the damaged statue and expressing sadness, Father Bolaños said.

“I don’t know what was in his mind,” he said of the attacker. “I hope he can be helped before he does something again.”

Father Bolaños lamented how statues are increasingly being desecrated in the Diocese of Brooklyn and throughout the U.S., especially after the pandemic. He added that irrational and aggressive behavior is becoming more common.

“The political atmosphere is very divisive,” he said. “We are in a new era.”

A plaque on the rectory’s front lawn relates that the statue was dedicated to Father Ignatius Zeller, the parish’s first pastor. His continued devotion to Mary inspired him to provide a hospital promoting Catholic values in Jamaica.

According to the plaque, the statue was also dedicated to the Sisters of St. Dominic and the hospital’s medical staff.

“I hope we can restore it,” Father Bolaños said. “It’s so beautiful. It’s history. And history is always important.”

The NYPD’s 103rd Precinct is investigating. Anyone with information can call Crime Stoppers at 1-800-577-TIPS (8477).